Reconciling Parental Control Software with Internet Security …

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Parental control software remains a useful tool to monitor your child’s online activity and at the same time block inappropriate content. The fact that you are an adult does not necessarily mean you like to view offensive content, so the software can also be utilised to block offensive content on sites you often visit. Unfortunately, with the monitoring part of the software comes an inherent security risk of sensitive information that may fall into the wrong hands.

If you want to use parental control software, you need to use it responsibly, especially if you install it on a computer that is shared by several members of your household. The trustworthy members of the family need to be aware of the software and the need to have administrator privileges to disable the software before working on the computer. Parents often forget to disable the software before doing online shopping or banking, effectively allowing the key-logger component of the software to log important information such as social security numbers, credit card numbers and passwords.

Many Internet monitoring software packages take screen shots at certain intervals to capture the contents of the screen at a specific point in time. This is also dangerous if you forget to disable the monitoring part of the software, before logging into a secure area of a website. Screen shots can be taken of sensitive information that’s normally only accessible behind a secure login area. All this information (keystrokes and screen shots) is stored on your hard drive, exposing it to possible exploits from crackers or spyware.

Well-written parental control software will obviously encrypt the information it logs, but crackers often decipher the encryption code in next to no time. The last thing you need is a spyware infection or an intruder on your system that can bypass the encryption of the parental control software. You don’t want a stranger going through your logs if you accidentally forgot to disable the software before entering sensitive information on the Internet. So the most important thing to remember is to disable the monitoring software before you use the computer and remember to enable it again when you’re done, otherwise there is no point in having the software on your computer in the first place.

Some parental control software allows you to create different profiles for different members of the family. You can for instance have a "Child" profile that blocks inappropriate content and monitors your child’s activity on the web, a "Teen" profile that does not block any content, but only monitors your child’s activity and a "Parent" profile that does not monitor your activity or block any content. The "Teen" profile can be activated when your teenager wants to use the computer, or you can activate the "Parent" profile if you are present while your children surfs the Internet. The "Child" profile should be used to limit Internet access while you are not at home to keep an eye on your children’s Internet activity.

Kaspersky Lab recently integrated a parental control module into their Internet Security suite. It does not log keystrokes or take screen shots, it only monitors HTTP traffic. To know what your child is doing on his or her computer, you only need to monitor their Internet use. It is easy to see which games they are playing and which software they are using by examining certain areas of your system, like the Program Files folder and the Add and Remove Programs section of the control panel. Clever kids will know how to wipe this information, but most programs make connections to the Internet these days, so just by examining the HTTP traffic generated by these programs, you can easily tell which programs your child is using and which websites they are visiting.

The parental control module of Kaspersky Internet Security logs all the websites visited by your children, all the remote images loaded from e-mails that they read and all the servers they connect to for online gaming and software updates. If the logs contain entries from winamp.com, then your child is probably using Winamp to play music or movies. Entries from ea.com, might indicate that your child is playing some games developed by Electronic Arts. Your children will also download software from certain sites, which will give you another indication of what kind of software they are using. The fact that the software monitors HTTP traffic, means that you are not only limited to the traffic generated by a web browser or e-mail client, it monitors all Internet activity from any application.

The way that Kaspersky Lab approaches parental control and monitoring software, does not compromise your online safety like your conventional child monitoring software, because there is no security holes created by keystroke logging and capturing of screen data. The logs of your HTTP traffic may still contain tracking information that you may not want to reveal to advertising companies (and their spyware programs), but the beauty of this module is that it is integrated into an Internet security suite, so you are automatically protected against unauthorised access and malicious software infections, thanks to the firewall the anti-malware shields of the software. Traffic through secure servers (HTTPS) is normally encrypted, so the monitoring software only sees the encrypted data during a secure online session like Internet banking or online shopping. I still recommend that you turn of the parental control module before transmitting sensitive information over the Internet.

Up to know I basically discussed the monitoring part of parental control software. The control part allows you to block indecent content as well. Blocking inappropriate content minimises the risk of malware infections. Porn sites are often loaded with spyware, so keeping your children away from these sites, does not only protect them from exposure to harmful content, but it also protects your computer from dangerous infections. Your child’s porn surfing may be the cause of a dangerous spyware infection, something you may not be aware of (especially if you don’t have any spyware protection installed). You could easily log into your online banking account or enter sensitive information on the web, without realising that there are spyware lurking on your computer, watching your every move. Parental control software is not designed to protect your computer against malware infections, but preventing your children from accessing inappropriate websites, helps them to stay away from potentially dangerous websites, which is the number one rule in malware prevention.

Proper parental control software should allow you to set up filters to block specific inappropriate content, giving you complete control over what you allow your child to access on the Internet. Kaspersky Internet Security allows you to do exactly this. Lets say you want to block access to sites containing the word "murder" in the URL. You simply add the filter "*murder*" to the Parental Control Blacklist and it will block all websites containing the word "murder" in the URL. You can also blacklist specific URL’s to prevent access to certain online chat rooms, web mail services or social community websites. Websites that carries your approval can be added to a white list to prevent the software from accidentally blocking it, or you may want to allow only specific pages from a site that’s currently on the blacklist. The flexibility of the software allows you to fine tune the parental control software to your own specific needs, enhancing the online safety of your children.

So what is the message I’m trying to get across here? As I said at the beginning of this article, parental control and monitoring software remains a useful tool to keep an eye on your children’s Internet activity when you are not present. As a parent you need to understand that parental control software poses certain security risks of you do not manage the software in a responsible way. I feel that developers of parental control software should move away from keystroke logging and screen capturing and focus on HTTP monitoring instead. Parental control software developed by a company who specialises in Internet security, gives you peace of mind that the software was designed with security as a top priority. The next step for Kaspersky Lab may be to make the module optional. Not everyone wants parental control software, but if I want to add this functionality to my computer, I’d rather buy it from a developer who has been in the Internet security industry for years, than buying the software from a developer who does not have a clue about Internet security.

Author: Coenraad De Beer

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Children Missing From Hometown!

Another Child Goes Missing!

Here we go again; another 14 year old girl has gone missing from Escondido, CA.  This is the second time within a year that this happened from Escondido and rumor is the latest missing girl, Amber Dubois, is yet again another child that may have met someone on the internet and run away.  Last year it was Kristen Smith.

What are we doing as a society or as parents to prevent our children from making sometimes deadly but always dangerous decisions to develop relationships on the Internet with people they do not know?  You always think to yourself, “Not in my home, not in my town!” especially when you run an Internet Safety company in the same town as these two instances.

A little less than a year ago, there was an article written by Michelle Renee about Internet Safety and Education.  She listed the following facts:

* 64% of teens post photos or videos of themselves online, while more than half (58%) post info about where they live.

* 32% of all teens and 43% of teens active in social networking have been contacted online by a complete stranger.

* 69% of teens regularly receive personal messages online from people they don’t know and most of them don’t tell a trusted adult about it.

* 23% of children have had an encounter with a stranger on the Internet, including 7% of children who reported having met someone in the real world from the Internet.

* 79% of sexual solicitation incidents happened to youth while they were using their home computer.

* 40% of solicitations began with a solicitor communicating with a youth through an instant message or “IM”.

* 56% of solicitations contained a request for the youth to send photographs of themselves to the solicitor and 27% of solicitations contained a request for the youth to send a sexual picture of themselves.

* 34% of youth have encountered unwanted sexual material while online.

Obviously, the message did not hit home with Superior Court.  The Superior Court stated that there were enough resources available to the public that the Government did not need to regulate or censure the Internet.  We as a society must take action on our own.  We can’t wait for someone else to protect our kids for us.

What we need to focus on is the education of these children on the dangers of the Internet and we need to provide all the protection we can as parents. Researchers have proven that Parents are THE most effective teachers of Internet Safety to their children.

You may think “Oh, I have a filter or parental controls on our PC

but have you really educated your child on Internet Safety?

We, as parents and as a society, need to instill safe practices into our children’s minds.  CEN is different than all the other parental control software providers because they combine Education with Technology.

ClubTUKI, the social media platform of Children’s Education Network, actually rewards kids with TUKI Moola (virtual currency) for playing games that teach Internet Safety and Best Practices.  What better way to get kids to learn something than to reward them? Club TUKI also teaches financial literacy with their auction and bank systems by allowing kids to use their Moola to bid “eBay style” on real items like Nintendo Wii’s and iPod’s and other cool KidSafe products.

It all comes down to interacting with your children from age 3 and beyond about safe internet practices, providing families with the technology that will protect them, and continuing to monitor and reward good choices.

Missing children, whatever the cause or reason, is not something you would ever wish on anyone.  It really doesn’t matter whether Amber Dubois chose to runaway, planned a meeting with an Internet “friend,” or was abducted.  Amber is a child, a child of our community, she is in danger and we all need to do what we can to help her get home,  as well as prevent others from the same fate.

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The Facebook Takeaway

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The media blitz and ensuing consumer outcry over Facebook’s recent attempt to change their Terms of Service indicating complete ownership of anything its users post even after they are long gone has, if nothing else, raised awareness of the privacy (or perceived privacy) of content we post on the Internet.

Whether you believe that Facebook really wanted to own and use everything that you ever posted at any time in the foreseeable future or if they were attempting to legally capture what actually happens to the content we post, or if you’re somewhere in between, you should realize the potential consequences of posting and sharing content online.

As a social media user or a parent of a child who use social networking sites such as Facebook, MySpace and Bebo, here is the takeaway:

Be cautious of what you post and share with others. Once you share content – pictures, videos, stories, artwork or any other originally created work – with just one person online, you relinquish control over its potential distribution and use.

This is not a new phenomenon brought about by social networks, it has been around since the advent of e-mail, however, the volume of content has grown and become much more personal today. Social networks have become an extension of our lives – they’re our family photo albums, our high school reunions, our workplace meeting ground, our venting platform and much more. So, the thought of this information circulating and used in a manner that we didn’t intend can be disconcerting.

Just remember the Internet is a medium of sharing as demonstrated with features such as copy and snag it. You can remove the content from your site and decide not to share it any longer, but it doesn’t always take it out of circulation – those with whom you shared and with whom they shared may still have a copy or may have posted it to another site.

The best rule of thumb is to post and share content with the understanding that it could be further shared, posted and remain on the Internet permanently. If you are not comfortable with that, the content probably shouldn’t be posted. I’m not suggesting that you shouldn’t use social networking sites. I use them on a daily basis and will continue to do so. However, I do want to raise awareness and suggest that you and your family take caution when posting and sharing. Young people especially tend not to understand the far reaching consequences of what they share. The Internet has a permanent memory.

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What Parents should know about Twittering?

Filed under: Technology

As parents, you probably are familiar with using social networking sites like MySpace and Facebook but have you heard about Twitter? Twitter is a relatively new free social network that allows family, friends, and co-workers stay connected via mobile texting, instant messages, or on the web.

Twitter offers an easy way to stay connected with the people in your life, by asking the simple question, “What are you doing?” People can respond with short messages or “tweets” that are under 140 characters to keep their friends and family updated on their latest interests or everyday happenings. By default, your Twitter profile is public and all your updates can be seen by anyone. However, you can control who sees your Twitter messages by selecting the “Protect my Updates” box in the Settings area.

By doing so, your profile becomes private and only approved followers can see your updates. Otherwise, anyone can read your updates, without your permission.

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You can find your friends or make new friends on Twitter by using people search (find people by their first name, last name or username), Twitter search (find people using keywords, location, interests, and more), Address Book import (find people on your other networks like Gmail, Yahoo, AOL, Hotmail, MSN). To “follow” someone means that you can see their updates on your Twitter homepage. You can control whose updates you receive, when you receive them, and on what device you see these updates (cell phone or on the web).

To get started with Twitter:
1. Go to Twitter.com. Click on the “Join the Conversation” button.
2. Create an Account. Provide your full name, preferred username, password and e-mail address. Remember that the user name is what people will see with an “@” symbol in front of it.
3. See if your friends are on Twitter. After you create an account, you will be prompted to look for friends in your Gmail, Yahoo, MSN, Hotmail or AOL accounts so you can begin following them if they’re already using Twitter.
4. Setting up your profile. Click on “Settings” in the upper right hand corner of your Twitter home page. You will be brought to a tab-based menu that helps you build your profile and modify your settings, including setting up your mobile phone to use Twitter.
5. Start looking for followers. Regardless of your immediate circle of friends that you have added through e-mail search or using people search, start looking around for people who may have similar interests using search.twitter.com.

As far as another thing to worry about regarding your teens’ online existence, you’re probably ahead of the curve as these sites aren’t nearly as popular with teens as MySpace and Facebook. Even though Twitter says that the site is not directed towards persons under the age of 18, it doesn’t ask for the user’s age when creating the account. So, your teens could be using this service without understanding the site’s policy.

As with any other social networking site, prudent judgment is needed when posting updates and be aware that what you post stays there forever (even when you are offline). Other articles on SafetyClicks that talk more about sharing information online are Serious Consequences of Posting Pictures and Who’s Looking at You.

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Twitter & Plurk – what parents should know
Interview with Jack Dorsey, CEO of Twitter

Check out the following video from Twitter.com….

 

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Decoding Teen Technology

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Take a look at AOL Consumer Advisor Regina Lewis’s interview on “The View” where she discusses technology that today’s teens are using, including tips for parents to help them understand settings and red flags on social networks like MySpace and Facebook. She also talks about a new term you may have heard about in the news called “sexting” — Sex +Texting = Sexting.

Read more about sexting in the article, Today’s Vocabulary Word: “Sexting

 

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